It is an important consideration – when to let your little ones to play the iPhone apps. They want to play as often as they can of course, and we, parents, have to decide on the occasions and duration.
Extreme cases and balance
There are two extremes in this decision.
One is not to let to play at all. Surprisingly, there are many parents who hold this opinion. And the reasons are different. Someone is afraid that a child can break the phone. Others are worried because of the psychological and educational implications.
Another extreme is to let it go and allow playing whenever the kid wants. Some even get their own iPhone or another device.
As with everything, I suggest that it is best to keep the balance. We live in the age of technology, and we need to let our children embrace it. On the other hand iPhone apps actually have strong psychological and emotional effects on children. Therefore time spent with these apps should be limited – the same as with TV, computer games or eating candies.
Letting to play
Most of the parents use the iPhone to entertain the child in cases when they don’t have time or there is no possibility to do anything else.
For example, in the morning hurry it can be justified to let the kid play while you are cooking the breakfast and prepare him or her to the kindergarten or school.
Another example is allowing to play in the car or waiting in the long line. It will also entertain the child and hopefully will teach him or her something.
We suggest alternating these activity with something else – reading, listening to music, just talking or singing with you! This way the child will get everything he or she needs from the app, but will also learn to entertain him with something else. And that is actually another great learning experience we don’t think about sometimes.
Have rules
The last but not least – should one allow the child to play in other circumstances than that. For example, playing instead of going outside?.
My opinion in this case is to encourage different activities for the kid, but to be flexible enough and give him freedom to choose. It is advisable to have the rules for playing with iPhone apps. If he really wants to play with the app – OK, play for 20 minutes and then let’s read the book or go outside. It is the balance which is important.
Enjoy together!
Today in the morning I had a similar dilemma. My little one wanted to play with the iPhone. However I managed to distract her with a book, and we ended up having a nice time together and enjoying the book. The other day we spent quite some time playing with the iPhone. In both cases it was good to be together!
I hope you find this information helpful and like the article. It is reasonable however that your opinion or experience might be different. What is it? I would be happy to hear it in comments!